Letter to the Editor of Orthodox Reform regarding the Katinas Case.
July 7, 2008
To Everyone Who is Concerned about Clergy Sexual Abuse,
I am a survivor of clergy abuse and was molested by Nicholas Katinas when I was a teenager. I am the person referred to as ‘DZ’ in the legal documents and news that has come out in the Katinas clergy abuse case. I was molested by Katinas when I was a teenager at the Assumption Church in Olympia Fields, IL in the early 1970s.
I now know that Katinas abused many other innocent minors. Some are still silent. Others have bravely come forward and joined the civil lawsuit against Katinas and the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America (GOAA) hierarchy, including the Holy Trinity Church of Dallas and the Metropolis of Denver.
I’m writing this letter to encourage everyone who is a survivor of clergy abuse to reach out and get help. For me, this meant starting therapy and seeing a counselor. For almost 30 years, I kept silent and blamed myself for the abuse. I felt incredible shame that affected important parts of my life — my relationship with my family and my wife.
It took many years of intense counseling for me to see that I was a victim. Clergy abuse is the biggest betrayal possible because of the priest’s association with the church and God. Katinas’ role as a Greek Orthodox priest, whom I was taught to respect and obey, prevented me from seeing him as an abuser.
The second reason I’m writing this letter is to encourage you silent victims, who were molested by Katinas, to come forward. This is a critical time in the history of the GOAA for them to publicly acknowledge their past mistakes. Read the rest of this entry »